Tuesday
Nov152005
a tale of two shows
Tuesday, November 15, 2005 at 01:52AM
So, I've got a few more minutes tonight to talk about this weekend. It was one of the most tiring weekends I've had in recent history, but it was a lot of fun, as well. To start off, I slept for two hours Thursday night and then flew to San Jose, Ca for a Caedmon's show. Jeff and I got there way before everybody else so we stopped at In-N-Out. Oh Glory...

This was wonderful, as usual, and was followed by a few hours at the venue where I discovered my Memory Man had broken during the flight. Thankfully, the guys there had a soldering iron I could use. Not so thankfully, I sort of accidentally lit a rag on fire and it looked like I was running down the halls of the church with a smoke bomb. Alas, it was just another guitar player racing to throw a flaming rag in a dressing room sink while trying to avoid breathing the fumes. And I still couldn't get the pedal to work.
The show was fun, although I was so tired I sometimes forgot where I was, figured, "if I'm this tired, it must be Young Life camp" and started playing "Light the Fire" and "Brown Eyed Girl." Not really. But that would have been awesome.
Oh, and Danielle went in to get a haircut and the stylist went a little nuts and so she was blonde for a couple days. It's probably already gone, but check this out...

So, after the show I went to a hotel and slept for about four hours and then hopped on another plane to Little Rock, AR, where I rented a car and drove that little baby to Arkadelphia to rehearse with Father Maple before that night's solo show. They're a really good band, and even better guys, and I had a lot of fun jamming with them. They were very kind to let this old, fat guy sit in on their practice.
We then headed to Thrio's, the venue, set up and hung out for a little while. I ate my dinner with Nick Flora, who opened and sat in with both Father Maple and myself, and Jarred McCauley, who I've now hung out with a few times, and have quite enjoyed his company. Nick, you must know, looks EXACTLY like Ben Shive. I sent this phone picture

to Ben, and during the show he left me a message wondering why I sent him a picture of himself calling him his twin. I'm sorry, but they're the same guy. They both play piano, write good songs, have quirky, cerebral senses of humor, and um, look like Ben. And Nick.
So Nick played and did a great job, and then Father Maple played and also did a great job. During their sets I got to meet a number of people at the show, which was pretty packed out, and I got to hear a lot of stories from people who really got a lot out of the Normals back in the day, and that meant a lot to me. I also chatted a bit with the parents, wives and girlfriends of the guys playing, and they were all really kind.
I got up to play my set and did six or seven songs by myself. Or I should say, with Charley. Nick sat in on the piano on "I'll Be Home Soon," just like Ben always does, and then Father Maple came up and joined me. We played a couple Normals tunes, a few songs off "Photographs" and one new one called "Following the Blind." They picked the stuff up great and I really enjoyed having a band to play with during the concert. I thought it was really cool that they would go to all the trouble of learning my songs, and I can't thank them enough. Here are some photos from that part of the show.




This was definitely an experiment for me, having a local band who I didn't really know back me up, but they were so much fun to play with, and hang out with, that it makes me want to do this kind of thing more. What a cool way to get to know some people, make a show an experience for the audience, and to get to learn from each other. Hopefully, there will be more of this to come. Father Maple has paved the way... The only thing about these guys is that they really, really, really like Nickelback, and that's just hard for me. Some things I will never understand.
Oh, and Dave, the bass player, has an awesome beard. I hope he didn't mind I kept dedicating songs to it.
After the show, I packed up, said my goodbyes, hopped in the ol' Nissan Sentra rental and started to drive back to Nashville. Honestly, this was stupid. It was just after 11 o'clock and is a six or seven hour drive. And then it started raining. Hard. And never stopped until about a half-hour outside of Nashville. Man, that was rough. I listened to some good tunes, though. I spent some time with the new Cardigans, of course, listened to a bit of the new Caedmon's as well, still liked it, moved on to a pile of cd's given to me by people at the show, which I usually don't get time to listen to, but really enjoyed this night, and then, when music started lulling me to sleep, listened to some Dane Cook and David Cross standup. I think David Cross is a really funny guy on a show or in a movie, but he honestly was so negative and bitter that I didn't find it that funny. But I was home and alive at that point, so I didn't really care anymore.
I slept in, through church unfortunately, but got to spend the afternoon and evening with Alison and Ella, which made me really happy. Mark Nicholas came over and we finished up some photos for my record and I think they turned out well.
I guess that's about it. Thanks to everybody both in California and Arkansas who were so kind and encouraging this week, and thanks to all of you who came out and supported me at the shows. I had a blast, albeit a sleepless one, and was grateful for you guys. I'm going to bed now, but I'll drop another note tomorrow. Buenos Noches!

This was wonderful, as usual, and was followed by a few hours at the venue where I discovered my Memory Man had broken during the flight. Thankfully, the guys there had a soldering iron I could use. Not so thankfully, I sort of accidentally lit a rag on fire and it looked like I was running down the halls of the church with a smoke bomb. Alas, it was just another guitar player racing to throw a flaming rag in a dressing room sink while trying to avoid breathing the fumes. And I still couldn't get the pedal to work.
The show was fun, although I was so tired I sometimes forgot where I was, figured, "if I'm this tired, it must be Young Life camp" and started playing "Light the Fire" and "Brown Eyed Girl." Not really. But that would have been awesome.
Oh, and Danielle went in to get a haircut and the stylist went a little nuts and so she was blonde for a couple days. It's probably already gone, but check this out...

So, after the show I went to a hotel and slept for about four hours and then hopped on another plane to Little Rock, AR, where I rented a car and drove that little baby to Arkadelphia to rehearse with Father Maple before that night's solo show. They're a really good band, and even better guys, and I had a lot of fun jamming with them. They were very kind to let this old, fat guy sit in on their practice.
We then headed to Thrio's, the venue, set up and hung out for a little while. I ate my dinner with Nick Flora, who opened and sat in with both Father Maple and myself, and Jarred McCauley, who I've now hung out with a few times, and have quite enjoyed his company. Nick, you must know, looks EXACTLY like Ben Shive. I sent this phone picture

to Ben, and during the show he left me a message wondering why I sent him a picture of himself calling him his twin. I'm sorry, but they're the same guy. They both play piano, write good songs, have quirky, cerebral senses of humor, and um, look like Ben. And Nick.
So Nick played and did a great job, and then Father Maple played and also did a great job. During their sets I got to meet a number of people at the show, which was pretty packed out, and I got to hear a lot of stories from people who really got a lot out of the Normals back in the day, and that meant a lot to me. I also chatted a bit with the parents, wives and girlfriends of the guys playing, and they were all really kind.
I got up to play my set and did six or seven songs by myself. Or I should say, with Charley. Nick sat in on the piano on "I'll Be Home Soon," just like Ben always does, and then Father Maple came up and joined me. We played a couple Normals tunes, a few songs off "Photographs" and one new one called "Following the Blind." They picked the stuff up great and I really enjoyed having a band to play with during the concert. I thought it was really cool that they would go to all the trouble of learning my songs, and I can't thank them enough. Here are some photos from that part of the show.




This was definitely an experiment for me, having a local band who I didn't really know back me up, but they were so much fun to play with, and hang out with, that it makes me want to do this kind of thing more. What a cool way to get to know some people, make a show an experience for the audience, and to get to learn from each other. Hopefully, there will be more of this to come. Father Maple has paved the way... The only thing about these guys is that they really, really, really like Nickelback, and that's just hard for me. Some things I will never understand.
Oh, and Dave, the bass player, has an awesome beard. I hope he didn't mind I kept dedicating songs to it.
After the show, I packed up, said my goodbyes, hopped in the ol' Nissan Sentra rental and started to drive back to Nashville. Honestly, this was stupid. It was just after 11 o'clock and is a six or seven hour drive. And then it started raining. Hard. And never stopped until about a half-hour outside of Nashville. Man, that was rough. I listened to some good tunes, though. I spent some time with the new Cardigans, of course, listened to a bit of the new Caedmon's as well, still liked it, moved on to a pile of cd's given to me by people at the show, which I usually don't get time to listen to, but really enjoyed this night, and then, when music started lulling me to sleep, listened to some Dane Cook and David Cross standup. I think David Cross is a really funny guy on a show or in a movie, but he honestly was so negative and bitter that I didn't find it that funny. But I was home and alive at that point, so I didn't really care anymore.
I slept in, through church unfortunately, but got to spend the afternoon and evening with Alison and Ella, which made me really happy. Mark Nicholas came over and we finished up some photos for my record and I think they turned out well.
I guess that's about it. Thanks to everybody both in California and Arkansas who were so kind and encouraging this week, and thanks to all of you who came out and supported me at the shows. I had a blast, albeit a sleepless one, and was grateful for you guys. I'm going to bed now, but I'll drop another note tomorrow. Buenos Noches!


















